Being lost
This September, my husband and I set off on a tour of remote places: the Lost Coast, Big Sur, and Southeastern Oregon. We always like to hike and adventure but this time felt an overarching psychological need to escape the ever-drumming ticker tape of terror and by doing so, regain connection with a greater authenticity. Not so coincidentally, with the exception of Big Sur, we visited places central to Tessa and Larry’s journey in “It’s Always 9/11”: Oregon’s ponderosa pines and deserts; California’s far northern “state of Jefferson”; suburban San Francisco (family and laundry, maybe Marietta and Sebastian as well); “Galactica Winery”; and of course the Lost Coast. From Mattole Beach, we looked up at the headlands where Tessa and Larry found temporary refuge.
And did we regain connection with a greater authenticity? Yes. The land—everywhere—from crashing ocean waves and tall cliffs to the vast empty spaces of the Steen’s Mountain area were so starkly, stunningly gorgeous that it almost hurt. Flocks of birds, seals, whales, went about their business independent of us. At night the sky was flooded with stars,, stretching back through space and time. Despite the absence of manmade lights the sky wasn’t dark. It glittered with light. The overwhelming landscape both dwarfed and enclosed us. I’ve felt more alone walking down the empty streets of our city neighborhood, everybody hiding in their houses. I did not realize how much anger and anxiety I’d been holding for the past three years until I felt it rise to the surface and drift away.
As for the people we met along the way, they came in all stripes. Many did not want to be found. Many no doubt had backstories, as do we all. The vast majority were friendly, and free of the stifling, guarded anxiety we’ve been surrounded by for far too long. Refreshingly free of judgement as well.
Observing is an essential component of writing, and most writers, myself included, are at heart observers. Yet I’ve found that truly great writing has to transcend observation. At a certain level you have to be one with your characters, what you’re writing about has to come from within you, and if that’s not the case in your first few drafts, your characters will reach out from the printed pages and pull you in. That’s certainly true of Tessa and Larry, but also Griffin and Lucille, Sebastian and Marietta. There’s something in me that wants to go beyond where the highway ends. To be on an empty beach, a thick forest, to strip off any coverings, mental or physical. Not to be found.
Meanwhile we are back home surrounded by the chattering ticker tape with refreshed eyes, trying to hold onto this reminder of how vast, incomprehensible and gorgeous our world (universe) is, while holding on to that curious heart, that precious equanimity.